Know Your Charge

If you see yourself as an open person, you are around someone who is closed off, and you want them to be open, be mindful. Some people are closing off for a reason. In some cases, a person's perception of his/her own light has been perverted, so when you open them, you'll most likely get the perversion first. So unless you're willing to be a skillful guide, I would advise not just 'popping people open' because you feel a shortage of those with whom you can share i.e. lonely. Know your charge before you proceed